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In the annals of Guam’s military history, the Kosaka name stands as a testament to duty, resilience, and tradition. The legacy began with Kosaka’s grandfather, who served his country with pride and set an early example of discipline and sacrifice for the generations that followed.
That foundation was carried forward by Jose Kosaka, the first male among four siblings to enlist in the United States Marine Corps. His decision not only shaped his own life but also set a modern precedent for military service in the family. Jose’s brother-in-law, Joe Piper—also a Marine and married to Aunt Del—further anchored the family’s connection to the Corps. Like many CHamorus of his era, Jose served in Vietnam. Family gatherings often became informal storytelling circles where veterans’ voices wove together tales of camaraderie, survival, and the enduring pride of service. For Jose’s son, Kosaka, those moments left a lasting imprint. “Hearing my father’s stories made the military feel like an adventure,” Kosaka recalls. “It was a way to serve something greater than yourself and become part of something bigger.” A Household Built on Discipline Kosaka grew up in a home where military discipline wasn’t just a concept—it was the framework for daily life. In CHamoru culture, values like respect, honor, and accountability run deep, and in the Kosaka household, they were reinforced with unwavering consistency. The expectation to uphold the family’s reputation and traditions was clear, even if unspoken. Carrying the Tradition ForwardToday, the Kosaka military heritage spans four generations—a point of pride for the family. From his grandfather’s service, to Jose’s time in Vietnam, to Kosaka’s own years in the Marine Corps, and now to his two sons Mikael and Kristian—the chain of service has remained unbroken. While the tools, technology, and battlefields have changed over the decades, Kosaka believes the heart of service remains constant: dedication, motivation, and the will to push forward no matter the obstacle. Choosing the CorpsWhen it was his turn to serve, Kosaka followed his father into the Marine Corps. His decision was fueled by more than family influence—it was a calling. The warrior mindset, forged through a tough upbringing, found its home in the Corps. He served eight honorable years on active duty, followed by three years in civil service. While his military journey never directly overlapped with his relatives’, Kosaka carried their spirit with him. Each mission completed and challenge overcome was another stitch in the fabric of the family’s legacy. Passing the Torch The legacy now lives on through Kosaka’s sons, Mikael and Kristian. Both chose military service, approaching their father for advice before enlisting. “I told them to do what they believe is in their best interest,” Kosaka says. “At the end of the day, it’s their choice, and they’ll be the ones living it.” Though their reasons for joining may differ from their father’s, they wear the uniform with pride. Kosaka hopes they carry forward the same values that guided him: protect and serve against all enemies, stay honest and accountable, and remember that God walks with them always. Patriotism, Then and Now The Kosaka family’s service has been recognized both formally—through groups like the Purple Heart Association—and in the everyday thank-yous from strangers. On Guam, events like Liberation Day serve as reminders of the sacrifices made and the victories earned. For Kosaka, patriotism means fulfillment. It is the knowledge that a small percentage choose to serve, but their impact reaches far beyond themselves. The Kosaka family stands as proof that service, discipline, and faith can be passed down—generation after generation—without losing their meaning. Joe meeting a unidentified man from Guam at the Honolulu Airport, who walked up to him to thank for saving his life during World War II. Joe was named as one of Guam's Liberators at a banquet in Guam in 2025 by Governor Lou Leon Guerrero. As told by Neal Supranovich Joe Caminiti and I stood in the loading area of Honolulu Airport, preparing for the final leg of our journey to Guam. We had just arrived from the mainland, and more passengers—many from Guam—were beginning to gather around us. Joe, warm and approachable as always, chatted easily with fellow travelers. I hung back, taking photos and watching the scene quietly. That’s when a man approached me. He looked to be in his late 60s, still strong, and carried the presence of someone shaped by history. He asked softly, “Is it okay if I talk to him?”—nodding toward Joe. “Of course,” I said, surprised. “Why are you asking me?” “You’ve got a camera,” he replied. “I thought maybe you were his agent.” I smiled. “No, just a friend.” Then he said something I will never forget. During World War II, his family—his mother, father, and uncles—had been imprisoned in Japanese camps on Guam. With emotion in his voice, he said, “If it wasn’t for people like Joe, my family might not have survived. I owe my life to him.” I stood there, speechless. He walked over to Joe and began to talk. I stepped back and let them have their moment. It was something sacred—one man offering a quiet, heartfelt thank-you to the Marine who helped change the course of his family’s life. I took a few photos, wanting to capture the history unfolding before me, but without disturbing what was clearly a deeply personal connection. Other Guamanians nearby overheard the exchange. Some watched in reverent silence, others came up to shake Joe’s hand and thank him. In that airport, something shifted. Gratitude filled the air. We boarded the plane and flew on to Guam. The next day, Joe realized he had forgotten his bar of soap. We stopped at an ABC store, but they didn’t carry the kind he liked. The clerk called over the manager. When the manager saw Joe, he paused. “I saw you at the airport yesterday,” he said. “I was on your flight.” He remembered the interaction between Joe and the man whose family had survived the camps. That moment had stuck with him. “I just want to thank you, sir,” he said. Then, without hesitation, he walked us to another store across the hotel property to find the exact soap Joe needed. It was a simple act, done with deep respect. That spirit of gratitude followed Joe everywhere we went during our time on Guam. Locals approached him to say thank you—some with tears, others with a gentle hand on the shoulder or a nod. Many didn’t say much at all. But they didn’t have to. At the time, neither of us knew what the term “Guam Liberator” meant. To me, Joe was simply Joe—a kind man, a humble Marine, and a dear friend. But as the week unfolded, we came to realize the full weight of his presence. Later that week, Governor Lourdes “Lou” Leon Guerrero herself confirmed it: Joe was indeed a Guam Liberator. His return to the island was not just a visit—it was a homecoming long overdue. At one hotel event, a local woman working the meal service came out to ask for a photo with Joe. She had to leave early, but later returned with a batch of homemade cookies she had baked just for him. Joe had already stepped out, so she handed them to a friend to ensure they reached him. Joe and I packed those cookies and brought them with us to Iwoto—better known to the world as Iwo Jima. There, thousands of miles from Guam, on the volcanic soil where he had once fought for every inch of ground, Joe quietly ate one of the cookies—a sweet reminder of the gratitude and kindness we had experienced all week. We never had the chance to return and thank her in person. But her gesture—and the many others we witnessed—left an unforgettable mark. It turns out Guam never forgot its liberators. And now, thanks to this journey, neither have we. Still Marching ForwardJoe Caminiti’s story didn’t end on Iwo Jima—or even in Guam. At nearly 101 years old, he continues to live a life of purpose, strength, and quiet determination.
There’s even a video of Joe working out at the gym the day after his 100th birthday celebration—filmed by a local TV station. You can find it on YouTube. Joe’s legacy is commemorated in multiple places: two paintings of him are on display at Camp Pendleton. His story is also preserved in our city library and the local military museum. Online, you’ll find articles, tributes, and clips honoring this remarkable man. He still takes calls from people who want to talk to a living piece of history. But to those who know him, Joe Caminiti isn’t just history. He’s heart, humor, grit, and grace. And when the people of Guam said, “Thank you,” they were speaking for all of us. Photo Credits: Neal Supranovich “We Were Just Trying to Stay Alive” The Story of Sgt. Joseph Caminiti, USMC and Guam Liberator8/5/2025 Joseph Caminiti is a 100 years old. He celebrated not with grandeur, but with grace—surrounded by family, friends, and a century’s worth of stories. A Marine, a husband, a father, and a war survivor, Caminiti represents a generation that gave everything—and asked for little in return.
““I hope I can get the help I’ve needed. The help I now know was there. Will the VA deny me? I’m not sure I can make it through this again.”
My name is Sergio O’Shaughnessy, and this is my story — the story of what came from my military experience as a combat veteran in the Gulf War. I was about 7 years old when I first felt the pull toward military service. I was drawn to the Navy, full of questions and curiosity. At 16, I discovered I could start the enlistment process. School never really challenged me. It felt repetitive and uninspiring, and I was always hungry for something more. I remember going to MEPS (Military Entrance Processing Station). The night before, I stayed at a hotel — and for the first time, I felt important. But the part I’ll never forget? Raising my right hand and swearing to defend the country I loved. At that moment, I would’ve given my life for it. Little did I know it would take my life — not in death, but in the years that PTSD stole from me, from my kids, my ex-wife, and from every relationship I’ve had since. I thought I was one of the lucky ones. I came home without physical injuries. But PTSD — back then — was not something we knew much about. Still, it was real. Young U.S. soldiers are tough. We’re competitive. We don’t show weakness. We don’t let our brothers down. That’s how we are. That’s why we are. The Gulf War: Brotherhood, Bombs, and Buried ScarsMy memories from the Gulf War are sharply two-sided — good and bad. The good: My shipmates. We were close. Our superiors were like family. We joked, trained, learned from each other. That closeness was why I made E-4, Third Class Petty Officer, at such a young age. When you have people who would die for you, you never let them down. The bad: I was only 20. I worked as an Aviation Ordnanceman, moving between the flight deck and deep in the ship's magazines. We were trained to fight fires — because on a ship, there's no escape from a fire. You run to it, not away. That training kicked in fast. I remember how the temperature changed from the flight deck to the magazines. Down in those magazines, we could be stuck for 20 to 30+ hours, never seeing daylight. We’d get sandwiches and drinks brought to us. We used a bucket to piss in. We’d ball up our naval coats and sleep on the missiles and bombs. Being raised Catholic, I often struggled with the knowledge that every bomb I built or missile I sent up was ending a life. God forgive me. But for my country — at that age, and with that pride — I’d do anything they asked of me. After the War: Silence, Ringing, and the Beginning of the EndLeaving the Gulf was a relief. The Captain told us we did our job and did it well. I was proud. I wore my medals — two of them for combat — with honor. But when we got back to port, everything changed. The planes were gone. Three-quarters of the crew had left. The ship was quiet and dim. That’s when I first noticed the ringing in my ears. The silence made it unbearable. I was assigned to do security checks of the magazines — all hours of the night. That’s when the sleepless nights began. The nervousness, the headaches, and the dreams. I’d choke in my sleep, dreaming that my firefighting mask was on wrong. I now know it was sleep apnea. My shipmates would throw slippers or cups at me to stop my snoring. I worked out, ran 3–5 miles a day, but I couldn’t shake the exhaustion. I started avoiding the ship every chance I had. I’d go to the bowling alley on base. I was underage, but we could drink on base. At first, it was a beer or two — enough to sleep. Then more. But sometimes, other sailors going through the same things kept me from going too far. From Petty Officer to PariahWhen I went on leave, my family threw me a welcome home party. But all the questions — about combat, about war — were too much. I drank too much. That night, I got a DUI. I was court-martialed. I received 45 days restriction, two months half pay, and was demoted from E-4 to E-3. And worst of all — restricted to the ship. The very place that was killing me inside was now my prison. My friends turned their backs. No more invites. No more support. Just shame. I wanted off that ship so badly. I didn’t care what the ensign attorney said. Please, just get me off that ship. In boot camp, we were told that anything less than an honorable discharge meant your life was worthless. You couldn’t even work at McDonald's. You were nothing. I was discharged with an Other Than Honorable (OTH). I went home ashamed. I lied to everyone, telling them the Navy found a hole in my heart. From hero to zero, just like that. The Lost DecadesI tried to move on. Tried jobs, school — but it’s hard to focus when your ears never stop ringing. I eventually started my own business. Most of my life, that’s what I did. I fathered 9 kids through 8 relationships, trying to build the family I thought would heal me — trying to make my Catholic mother proud. But I kept failing. I gave my ex-wife everything — because she kept my boys. She knew I was sick. She made me go for a sleep study. I was prescribed a CPAP machine, but I couldn’t wear it. The nightmares were too vivid. It felt like I was back in the fire. Because of that discharge, I avoided all veteran help. I wanted nothing to do with the VA, with “benefits,” with anyone that reminded me of what I’d lost. Rock BottomNow, I’m 52 years old, homeless, and tired of trying — and failing. I live in my Toyota 4Runner, worried it’ll be towed. My tools, my home, everything I have is in that truck. I can’t afford insurance or gas. I have no stable income. I can’t even get to a job. For the last six months, things have been the worst they’ve ever been. I’ve burned every bridge. My anger is out of control. I’ve lost contact with all my kids — except one. She’s 16. I hope one day she’ll meet the man I really am. Or the man I know I still can be. A Glimmer of Hope. I finally forced myself to try again. I went to a VA-funded organization and was accepted. But when I broke down and admitted to having thoughts of suicide, I was ignored and denied. That crushed me. But I didn’t stop. I called the VA Crisis Hotline. I navigated the VA site myself. I learned about exposure therapy — confronting the triggers of PTSD. It’s helped. For the first time in decades, I see how this happened. I wasn’t crazy. I was broken by war, forgotten by a system that didn’t know how to help. Now, I want to live again. I want to apologize to my children. I want to stop running from who I’ve become and start healing into who I still can be. Final Words. I hope the VA doesn’t deny me. I’m not sure I can take another fall. But I’m here. I’m trying. And I’m ready to fight — not in war, but for my life. If you are a veteran or know someone who is struggling, please reach out. Call the Veterans Crisis Line at 988 (Press 1) or visit www.veteranscrisisline.net. Published at www.aveteransjournal.com Written by Sergio O’Shaughnessy | Edited and Shared by Phillip V. Cruz, Jr., MPA In the heart of the Pacific, where island pride and patriotism run deep, a group of veterans in Guam has forged a new kind of unit—not with weapons or war plans, but with compassion, connection, and healing. GY671 isn’t your typical veteran organization. It’s a grassroots support network that has become a lifeline for many, especially those quietly struggling with the invisible wounds of service.
GY671 officially launched in December 2019. It began with a small group of veterans who saw too many of their brothers and sisters falling through the cracks of the VA system. The name itself is rich with meaning: "GY" stands for "Got Your Six," a familiar military phrase that means "I've got your back," and "671" is Guam's area code. Together, it becomes a message of solidarity: "Hey Guam, I got your six." From its humble beginnings, GY671 has grown into something far more profound than just a support group. It has become a movement—a community of veterans from all branches and backgrounds who come together to talk, eat, and heal. Roy T. Gamboa, one of the founding members explained, "For me personally, it feels like another home. It’s a place where I belong. It reminds me of my service and the bonds I created with my fellow Marines. That camaraderie—it never goes away." GY671 meets weekly on Wednesday nights at 7 PM at a location affectionately known as "The Hooch" in Tumon, just above the Hilton. Veterans gather in a circle, share stories over food, and engage in what they call "Battle Buddy Talk." No lectures, no ranks—just honest conversations among people who understand. Family members are welcome too. The goal is simple: connection and healing. What sets GY671 apart is its "no wrong door" approach. Any veteran who walks through their door will be helped. If they don't have the resources on hand, they'll find them. And unlike many bureaucratic institutions, GY671 leads with empathy, not paperwork. Whether it's helping someone with PTSD, navigating the VA system, or simply providing a safe place to talk, the focus is always on meeting veterans where they are. One member shared his experience transitioning from military to civilian life: "It wasn't tough at first, until I realized years later that I had been struggling with PTSD all along. I didn’t understand what was happening in my mind. Taking off the uniform didn’t mean I left the mindset. It took about four to five years to start feeling normal again." Another challenge many veterans face is accessing the benefits they’ve earned. "When I got out in 2008, I didn’t even know I could get medical coverage through the Seabock. I paid for insurance for years unnecessarily. There was no one to tell me otherwise. That’s part of why we started this group—so others don’t get left behind." What makes the greatest impact, according to members, are the success stories. Watching a fellow veteran overcome addiction, PTSD, or suicidal ideation and emerge stronger is what keeps this community going. "That’s the healing," one member said. "Not just getting better ourselves, but helping someone else break through." COVID-19 presented another major hurdle. With lockdowns and distancing protocols, maintaining contact was difficult. But it also underscored how essential GY671 is. "We veterans already struggle with isolation. Add a pandemic on top of that, and the risk doubles. That’s why this group matters. It tells you: You’re not alone." Many veterans in GY671 admit that it took time to accept they needed help, and even longer to ask for it. One member recalled his first session with a VA therapist. "I asked if they were a veteran. When they said no, I immediately felt like they wouldn’t understand. That’s why peer support is so powerful. Veterans trust veterans." The group recognizes that healing isn’t always linear, and it doesn’t look the same for everyone. For some, it’s being able to talk openly for the first time. For others, it’s maintaining sobriety, holding a job, or simply showing up to a meeting. When asked what civilians most often misunderstand about veterans' mental health, one member responded: "They don’t realize how different our realities are. We enter service young, we live by a different code, and then we're expected to just switch it off. Civilians often don’t know what questions to ask, and veterans often don’t know how to answer. That’s why we need groups like GY671." Gamboa’s advice to any veteran still struggling: "You're not alone. You don't have to go through this by yourself. Reach out. Even if you think you don’t deserve help. Even if you think no one will understand. We do." The group is also proactive about involving families. A spouse coordinator helps ensure that partners and children are not left out of the healing process. After all, trauma doesn’t stay neatly inside a single person—it affects households. When asked what healing means now, one member paused thoughtfully before saying: "Healing is seeing others come out of the darkness. It’s about watching someone who was lost start to find their way back. If we can help someone get there, even just one person, then this is all worth it." Perhaps the most powerful takeaway from GY671 is the importance of telling your story. "If we don’t share, we can’t connect. If we can’t connect, we can’t heal. There are veterans out there thinking they’re the only one going through it. But they’re not. And they need to know that." GY671 meets every Wednesday at 7 PM at The Hooch in Tumon and is open to all veterans and their families. You can also visit their main office on the third floor of the Bell Tower in Hagåtña, right across from the 76 gas station. For many veterans on Guam, the battle doesn’t end when they come home—it just takes a new form. It’s not a fight against foreign enemies, but a struggle for something they’ve already earned: access to quality healthcare.
🏥 VA Healthcare in Guam: A Missing LifelineDespite the island’s deep military roots and proud record of service, Guam lacks a fully equipped VA hospital. Veterans suffering from PTSD, cancer, combat-related injuries, or chronic illness are often referred off-island to Hawaii or the U.S. mainland—a journey that’s expensive, emotionally difficult, and often impossible for those in financial or physical distress. This lack of local care means many Guam veterans delay or skip vital treatments, putting their health at serious risk. 💸 Veterans Benefits in Guam: Underfunded and UnequalIn 2012, Guam ranked last in VA spending per veteran, receiving only $822 per person, compared to over $5,000 in many U.S. states. This funding gap continues to affect veterans’ access to services today. Guam’s veterans serve the same country, risk the same injuries, and wear the same uniform—but they don’t receive equal VA healthcare. The numbers show it, and veterans feel it. 🗳️ Guam’s Political Status Affects Veterans’ AccessAs an unincorporated U.S. territory, Guam has no voting representation in Congress. This means veterans in Guam have less political power to push for improved services. While CHamoru service members enlist at one of the highest rates per capita in the U.S., their representation in national decisions remains limited. This political reality is part of what causes the ongoing struggle for military healthcare access in Guam. 💬 Stories That Matter: Veterans Left BehindVeterans like Sergio O’Shaughnessy have bravely come forward to share how they were promised help—only to fall through the cracks. His story of homelessness, misdiagnosed PTSD, and broken VA support is a chilling reminder that systems meant to help veterans can sometimes hurt them instead. There are many others whose stories remain untold—waiting, struggling, suffering quietly. 🛠️ Solutions for Better Access to VA Services on GuamGuam veterans are calling for:
📣 Help Raise Awareness for Guam’s VeteransWhether you're a veteran, family member, or supporter, your voice matters. Here’s how you can help: ✅ Share this post using hashtags like #GuamVeterans, #VAHealthcareGuam, #VeteransDeserveBetter ✅ Contact your local representatives and demand improved access ✅ Submit your story to A Veteran’s Journal and help raise awareness For over 30 years, Sergio O’Shaughnessy, a U.S. Navy veteran, has lived in the aftermath of war—and the silence that followed.
He served proudly in two major military operations: Operation Desert Shield during the Gulf War and Operation Restore Hope in Somalia. As a young sailor, he rose quickly through the ranks, earning multiple commendations:
But after returning home, everything changed. The Quiet Collapse Sergio didn’t understand what he was feeling, but he knew something wasn’t right. He started drinking. Not to celebrate, but to forget. He would sit at the bowling alley in San Diego, too young to drink but desperate for peace. His behavior spiraled—he got a DUI, went AWOL briefly, and suddenly the pride he had earned was buried in shame. No one stopped to ask what was going on. No one said, “Are you okay?” Instead, he was issued an Other Than Honorable (OTH) discharge—a mark that would define his life far more than his medals ever did. It wasn’t just a piece of paper. It was a wall. With it, Sergio lost access to the care he needed, the respect he deserved, and the future he had imagined. He was still young, still fighting internally, and completely alone. Life After Service: “I Was Running From Something” For years, Sergio tried to outrun the damage. He built a life—started a tile and granite business, worked hard, and supported his wife and children. But inside, he was unraveling. He didn’t know then that PTSD was behind the rage, the depression, the self-destruction. His wife—who worked for a psychiatrist—knew something was wrong. She pleaded with him to seek help. He refused. Not because he didn’t want to heal, but because he didn’t trust the system that had tossed him aside. He masked his pain with work and self-medication. He lost relationships. He fathered nine children with eight different women. He fell into deep cycles of instability. And eventually, he became homeless, living out of his 4Runner, carrying thousands of dollars in tools but no clear direction. For decades, Sergio stayed far from anything associated with the government or VA. He believed they had forgotten him—and maybe even wanted him to disappear. A Step Toward Hope—Then More Doors Closed It took everything Sergio had to ask for help. After becoming homeless, he sat outside a veteran assistance center in Merced, California, for two full days. He couldn’t bring himself to go inside. Finally, another veteran—someone who had gone through the program—walked him in. That moment changed everything. Or so he thought. Sergio opened up. He told them about his mental health. He admitted he’d had suicidal thoughts. He was assured that he’d get housing support and help with his VA claim, and that his discharge wouldn’t stop him from getting care. He left that meeting hopeful. But that hope faded fast. The organization submitted his VA claim with incorrect or missing information. They promised housing but backtracked. His credit, his income, his history—suddenly none of it added up to "qualify." He was offered a shared home with four strangers—something that directly conflicted with his mental health struggles, which he had explained. He begged for just one night of rest—to detox, clear his head, and think straight. They said no. When he returned to ask again, they told him he wasn’t even in the program anymore. Falling Through the Cracks, Again and Again Sergio tried to keep going. He did his own research on VA claims. He tracked down his paperwork. He reached out to doctors. But the support he was promised vanished. He was left with mail he couldn’t access, appointments he missed, and memories he couldn’t shake. He was retraumatized. Again. By a system built to protect him. He asked for accountability. He reached out to supervisors. A mental health rep even admitted that Sergio’s case had been mishandled—and promised to look into it. But then…nothing. No calls. No updates. No resolution. Just silence. When Asking for Help Feels Like a Crime As Sergio tried to keep his life together in his vehicle, he also became a target of local law enforcement. In one incident, an officer accused him of being drunk and interrogated him about a drug dealer named Gary—someone he didn’t know. Sergio blew below the legal limit on a breathalyzer. Still, he was detained, searched, and humiliated. Another time, officers searched his car—his home—without consent. They threw his belongings, lost his earbud (which he relied on to offset his tinnitus), and gave him a ticket for a faulty brake light… at 1 p.m. in an empty lot. Even the smallest acts of peace were denied to him. “I Still Drink. I Still Hurt. But I Don’t Want to Die Like This.” Sergio is still battling. He wants to heal. He wants help. He doesn’t want to drink or use drugs to cope. He doesn’t want to relive nightmares, rage, and isolation. But every time he reaches out, the system fails him. He has done the hard part. He has admitted he’s struggling. He’s taken the step. He has even tried to support others, walking alongside fellow veterans and reminding them that they’re not alone. Now, he’s pleading with us—with you, with the system, with anyone who will listen. Call to Action: Listen Before It’s Too Late We can’t keep losing veterans like Sergio O’Shaughnessy. He served this country. He earned his medals. He came home carrying invisible wounds. He asked for help. And he was turned away. 👉 If you’re a veteran advocate or VA employee, honor the promise your position carries. Don’t let veterans like Sergio slip through your fingers. 👉 If you’re a veteran in crisis, know this: you are not alone, and your life matters. We believe you. 👉 If you’re a reader or ally, share this story. Speak Sergio’s name. Push for accountability in systems that still fail our service members after the uniform comes off. Sergio O’Shaughnessy is still here. But he shouldn’t have to fight this hard to survive. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, is often called an invisible wound—and for good reason. It doesn’t leave visible scars. It doesn’t show up in x-rays or lab reports. But for those who live with it, its effects can be just as real, just as painful, and just as life-changing as any physical injury.
PTSD can affect anyone—veterans, survivors of violence, those who’ve experienced serious accidents, trauma, or loss. It shows up in different ways: flashbacks, nightmares, anxiety, numbness, anger, or a deep sadness that never seems to lift. And while it may feel like something you have to live with in silence, the truth is: you don’t have to face it alone. A Personal Reflection My father was a happy man for the most part—loving, hardworking, and full of laughter. But there were moments when PTSD would hit him hard and unexpectedly. I’ll never forget one night when it nearly took him from us. He was in such a dark place that we had to run out of the house and act fast—he was about to hang himself. Thank God we were able to stop him in time. It was a terrifying, heartbreaking moment that showed us just how deep those invisible wounds can run. Why Getting Help Matters Seeking help for PTSD is not a sign of weakness—it’s a courageous step toward healing. It’s saying, “I deserve to feel peace again.” Therapy, support groups, and even medication can make a life-changing difference. And most importantly, talking to someone—whether a professional or a trusted friend—can be the first crack in the wall PTSD builds around your life. Left untreated, PTSD can impact relationships, jobs, physical health, and even one’s will to live. But when addressed with the right support, people can and do recover. They rediscover joy. They rebuild trust. They reconnect with themselves. You Are Not Alone If you’re struggling, know this: There are others who understand. There are resources. There is hope. Asking for help is an act of bravery—not surrender. You are not your trauma. You are more than what happened to you. It’s okay to talk about it. It’s okay to reach out. Healing takes time—but it starts with one simple truth: you matter. For many veterans, the battle doesn’t end when the uniform comes off. The transition back to civilian life can be filled with unseen challenges—physical injuries, mental health struggles, job insecurity, or limited access to healthcare. That’s why attaining Veterans Affairs (VA) benefits is not just a right—it’s a vital step toward healing, stability, and dignity.
✪ A Lifeline After Service VA benefits are designed to support those who gave a part of their life to serve our country. These benefits are not handouts—they’re earned. Whether it’s disability compensation, healthcare access, housing assistance, education funding, or vocational rehab, each program exists to help veterans reclaim parts of their lives that were impacted by service. For some, these benefits are a financial safety net. For others, they offer access to medical care that would otherwise be unaffordable or unavailable. In places like Guam, where healthcare access can be limited, these benefits can truly be life-saving. ✪ Why Some Veterans Don’t Apply Sadly, many veterans never apply. Some don’t know they qualify. Others feel overwhelmed by the paperwork, frustrated by the system, or reluctant to ask for help. Many more—especially from smaller communities or territories like Guam—feel forgotten by the system altogether. But the truth is, the VA system, while imperfect, can only serve those who claim their space in it. Advocacy starts with awareness. Applying for benefits isn’t just for you—it’s for your family, your future, and for every veteran who comes after. ✪ You're Not Alone If you're struggling to get started, there are veteran service officers (VSOs), nonprofits, and fellow vets who’ve been through the process and want to help. Organizations like the VA Pacific Islands Health Care System, Guam Vet Center, and others are here to support that journey. ✪ Every Story Matters Attaining your VA benefits isn’t just about what you receive—it’s about being recognized. It’s about telling the government: I served. I matter. My story deserves support. So, if you’re a veteran, or know one who hasn’t started the process, encourage them to apply. Help them find the forms. Sit with them through the paperwork. The process might not be easy, but it’s worth it. Veterans: You earned these benefits. Don't let them go unused. |
AuthorPhillip V. Cruz, Jr. is a Guam-based writer, veteran advocate, and co-owner of Islanderth Product. He shares stories from the island and beyond—honoring culture, service, and everyday resilience. Archives
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